Weekly Photo Challenge: Warmth – Greek A to Ω – Ξ (Xi) is for Xεnία or Hospitality

Antonia and Vangelis – Homer’s Inn Hotel

The theme of hospitality is very important and prevalent in the Greek culture and Philoxenia is an important point of pride for Greeks and is something rooted in ancient times and in mythology.  In a famous story Zeus was said to have disguised himself as a poor man, dressing himself in rags, so that he could visit the homes of Greeks and see how they treated strangers, revealing himself at a certain point as the god he really was, the point of the story being that it’s a good idea to treat strangers or foreigners well, because they could turn out to be gods.

We have always enjoyed exceptional warmth and hospitality in Greece and I suppose this is one of the reasons for continually going back.  Everywhere we have been Greek people have been welcoming and friendly and I would gladly return to every place I have been or stayed but one place that deserves a special effort to return to is Homer’s Inn on the island of Ios and the home of Vangelis and Antonia and their son Panos where there is always a special welcome.

We visited Ios several times between 2006 and 2012 (missing only 2010 when we went to the Dodecanese islands instead) but that is no achievement at all compared with Martin, Lisa and Robin who have been returning to Homer’s Inn every year for nearly a quarter of a century.  Robin, being a solo traveller, is not surprisingly more adventurous than most and one morning he entertained us with his tales of his various ways of getting himself to the island. Ferries of course from mainland or nearby islands and flying, but by a variety of alternative routes and different carriers including on one occasion, a seaplane into the harbour; by train and part way on the Orient Express via Sarajevo, and bravest (or maybe daftest) of all by car, driving through central Europe and the Balkans, through Serbia, Kosovo and Bulgaria.

Philoxenia consists of three basic elements:

  1. The respect from host to guest. The host must be hospitable to the guest and provide them with food and drink and a bath, if required.
  2. The respect from guest to host. The guest must be courteous to their host and not be a burden.
  3. The parting gift (xenion, ξεινήιον) from host to guest. The parting gift is to show the host’s honor at receiving the guest.

In 2008 when we left at the end of our five days there Vangelis presented us with a tea mug each, which represented our acceptance as Homer’s special guests.  How nice was that?  I look forward to going back again soon.

16 responses to “Weekly Photo Challenge: Warmth – Greek A to Ω – Ξ (Xi) is for Xεnία or Hospitality

  1. I’m packing my bags….

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  2. this captures beautifully the hospitality of the greeks… great post


  3. Wonderful post, Andrew. We’ve always experienced such warm hospitality in Greece, but I never knew the word for it. Xεnία! And the tradition of hosts giving a gift is so interesting. Thanks for filling in the gap in my knowledge. Wishing you a very Happy New Year! ~Terri

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  4. You’re making a visit seem so tempting…. pity it would involve a flight.


  5. Would xεnία be from the same root that forms the word xenophobe, I wonder?

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  6. I fell in love with Ios in 1971 – then it was an unknown island except for a few backpackers and no hotels as such; we slept in a tent on Markos Beach. There were no cars, only a dirt road leading up to the town and down the other side where two tavernas (one each side of the bay) served us with yoghurt and honey or maybe an egg for breakfast and sometimes octopus in the evening. The simple life. I have never forgotten it.

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    • I like Ios because it does remain a little under developed compared with some of the neighbouring islands. I was disappointed I have to say when a modern supermarket replaced the dusty old mini-market on the harbour!


  7. although we don’t have nearly the experience you do Andrew, we too found that the family inn we stayed at in Santorini so warm and friendly. I could hardly believe the lengths they went to make us comfortable. I had not heard about the parting gift. What a lovely tradition.


  8. Great views! Must have been an idyllic trip!

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