“It really doesn’t pay to go back and look again at the things that once delighted you, because it’s unlikely they will delight you now.” – Bill Bryson,
Sally and the grandchildren were returning home today, a day earlier than Kim and I so with a two hundred mile journey to consider we decided to make some visits to places along the first part of their route.
We started with Padstow, a popular fishing port on the north coast of Cornwall. We could have chosen any one of a number of similar villages but we chose Padstow because we wanted fish and chips from Rick Stein’s chippy.
Rick Stein is a famous English celebrity chef who lives in Padstow and specialises in fish dishes. He has been so successful that he now owns several restaurants and food shops in the town and the locals now refer to the place as Padstein.
As we got close it became obvious that a lot of other people wanted Rick Stein’s fish and chips today because on a gloriously sunny day the car parks were full and the charming little harbour was overrun with tourists and day-trippers.
The queue at the fish and chip shop close to the harbour was too long and too slow for my impatient grandchildren so went elsewhere and bought them from an alternative restaurant and I am certain that they tasted just as good.
We spent a couple of hours in Padstow around the boats and the seaside shops and looked across the Camel Estuary to the up-market seaside village of Rock where I holidayed with my parents around about 1965.
After Padstow I was keen to visit Tintagel because I had happy memories of it from 1965. Tintagel Castle is associated with the stories of brave King Arthur, mysterious Merlin, The bold Knights of the Round Table and beautiful Queen Guinevere and this was when I still believed the stories of the Arthurian legend.
Although it is almost certain that King Arthur (if indeed there ever was a King Arthur) never stepped foot at all in Tintagel or its castle (mostly on account of the fact that it wasn’t built until several years after his possible existence) the village and English Heritage (who own the castle) have made a very good job of convincing everyone that he did and have successfully turned it into one of the most visited places in England.
This is a picture of my grandparents visiting the castle in 1960…
… in 1960 they always seemed old to me but they were only in their mid-50s and now that I am sixty-five I see them in a different way.
I can’t be sure why I remembered Tintagel as somewhere interesting and worth a return because it turned out to be spectacularly unmemorable. We parked the car in the visitor centre which without explanation was closed and walked towards the castle along a long linear street lined with shops and cafés which all had a predictable Arthurian theme and held no interest for us.
After a steep descent to the coast we came upon the castle which was also closed whilst a new footbridge is being constructed across from the mainland to the rocky promontory that is the castle. I say castle but all there is to justify this description are a few scrappy bits of ruined walls and not much else so I wasn’t too upset that it was closed and at least we saved on the admission fee.
Tintagel goes onto my list of disappointing places alongside Jamaica Inn. I had no plans to visit Jamaica Inn today because even as a ten year old I can remember being greatly underwhelmed by the visit there over fifty years ago.
So we went to Boscastle where I remembered the Witches Museum which also turned out to be a place that I didn’t really need to go back to. I offered my grandchildren money not to go in but they insisted and their assessment was one of disappointment and regret that they hadn’t taken the cash offer. Boscastle has more charm than Tintagel I have to confess but after a walk alongside the long sinuous harbour and a visit to the National Trust shop there isn’t really a great deal more to see.
But the real purpose of our visit was to complete the week with a Cornish cream tea so we identified a suitable place where the grandchildren could terrorise the staff and spoil the afternoon for any other visitors and sat in the sunshine and enjoyed a plate of homemade scones, some plain, some with currants and remembered that in Cornwall it is jam first and cream on top unlike in Devon where they reverse the procedure.
After tea we said goodbye to Sally and the children, they headed east towards the Midlands and we returned to Mevagissy and the cottage which now seemed curiously deserted and quiet. I always get an empty feeling when the children go home.
The following day we enjoyed a long walk along the coastal path in the unexpected sunshine and a week that began requiring raincoats, scarves and gloves ended in shirt-sleeves, shorts and sun-cream. What a genuinely fascinating and eclectic place England is with its interesting diverse weather conditions that always manage to delight and surprise.
The next day we vacated the lovely Tranquility Cottage and made the long drive home to the East Coast.
If memories were indeed like taped recordings we wouldn’t be surprised when they turn out no more substantive than the myth we evaluate with the skepticism of the present.
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Very profound – I like it, I’ll use that quote one day!
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I can only hope my name will accompany my words.
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of course!
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I like my scones the Cornish way too. Spread the jam and add a dollop of cream. The way we pronounce scone in this country always fascinates me. It’s not as though each area pronounces differently, it’s individuals. I say scone as in OWN and I have friends who say scon. Another interesting article Andrew.
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A Scot may call it a Scoone!
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Some of us even put butter under the jam! Anyway, that was a lot of disappointments to take in one day, not the usual Petcher day out, and I’m surprised you didn’t know about Tintagel Castle being closed for the bridge building, it’s been going on for a while and is why we didn’t revisit in April too.
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Actually Brian I did know but I made the point for a bit of drama! Not disappointed that it was closed there isn’t a lot to see and anyway the English Heritage visitor centre was open!
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Good for English Heritage!
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And what a drive! Around 330 miles to Nottingham and a good few more for you after that.
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Around about 400 miles in total so we broke the journey at my Mum’s house near Rugby.
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Well fisht and chips à la Española !
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I had some nice fish and chips in Berlin last week!
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Berlin !!
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Yes Berlin, never been there before!
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well good fish and chips had here by the beach at Guidel, and then some other places.
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In France you cannot prepare Fish and chips as in England. Next week I go to Yorkshire for perfect fries and sea food. In France best stick to McDonalds filet o fish! Ha Ha!
Guidel looks nice!
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Haha Ha but Ithough those fish and chips were Normans lol!!!
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What did the Normans ever do for us?
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conquered you lol!! gave you words like honour not honor and food like….lol!!!
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We embrace the Normans, we celebrate 1066!
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I agree largely with Bill Bryson’s words….I don’t often return to places, and only on very rare occasions does the place live up to the memory
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An interesting post Andrew. I find the Bill Bryson quote true around 50% of the time but you don’t know which half a place falls into until you actually revisit! There can be too much hype and many places can’t live up to the marketing/advertising descriptions. I am like the little boy in The Emperor’s New Clothes story and see things as they really are.
I visited Tintagel as a 10 year old in 1960 as in the photo of your grandparents so, as a (just) 69 year old, I fully understand your comments about age! Thanks for the post.
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I have two lists, one for places I would go back to and another for those that I wouldn’t. I am 65 next month, soon to get my State pension I hope!
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I’ve not been back to Cornwall since 1964. I really like that sculpture
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The best thing about Tintagel Derrick!
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At least you had a cream tea!! Are there places you’ve returned too which weren’t particularly interesting or worth visiting the first time, but on a later visit have revealed something marvellous?
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Borth in Wales, I hated it as a child but went back a couple of years ago and really liked it!
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The worst is when you try to revisit a place and it’s disappeared, pulled down, hidden under a motorway or shopping centre, or just disappeared!
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I love the Arthurian sculpture, Andrew. Don’t think I made it to Tintagel so I can’t judge. 😊 Back at the airport for our hop to our second island. Not much sun about but I had enough to keep me going for a while in the Algarve.
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The statue was the best bit about Tintagel. We are driving north next week to Robin Hood’s Bay.
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Say hello for me 😚
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Where is your other island?
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On Sao Jorge 4 days then Faial for 3 and back to Sao Miguel for 5 ☺ xx
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I really like the statue too. Not entirely in agreement with the great BB as I’ve been doing a lot of nostalgic visits recently and enjoying them. Just back from Islay where we hadn’t been for 30 years and loved it!
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I am exaggerating a wee bit, I had a great day really!
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I have really enjoyed all your Cornwall posts, Andrew. The Arthurian statue is wonderful! I remember visiting Tintagel in the 70’s with my parents before the visitor centre arrived and quite liking the bleakness of the place and the ruins on the cliff.
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Thanks Clare, next time in England I am travelling to the North Yorkshire Moors!
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The old timber posts in the slate pathway gets my number one vote today.
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Thanks John, old mooring posts at Boscastle harbour. Now replaced by concrete ones – I didn’t take a picture of those!.
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I am sure I would prefer the old ones to the new.
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We toured quite a bit around Cornwall in 2005, I do believe that our time in the West Country was the best time we had in England, although I had a great old time in York, Railway Museum what would you expect? And of course Yorkminister.
Down Somerset I had to go visit Wells Cathedral, again, hadn’t been there since 1940 thought they may have missed me
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I like Cornwall but my favourite remains Northumberland.
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Never got that far, Farthest north I got was east coast and Durham, did get to Lancashire in 1944 for a couple of months,
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You were almost there, a pity that you missed it!
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oh no so sad to hear that about Tintagel as I have fabulous memories of a childhood visit there too!
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I wouldn’t rush back again!
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Advice noted! I’ll just keep looking at his table top here in Winchester instead!
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did he go to Winchester? Some modern thought is that he was from East Anglia. Maybe he was everywhere!
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Don’t think he ever made it here but we have a 13th century ’round table’ of his, repainted by Henry VIII!
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