Philoxenia consists of three basic elements:
- The respect from host to guest. The host must be hospitable to the guest and provide them with food and drink and a bath, if required.
- The respect from guest to host. The guest must be coruteous to their host and not be a burden.
- The parting gift (xenion, ξεινήιον) from host to guest. The parting gift is to show the host’s honour at receiving the guest.